My First Love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him. Well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.

Hate The Offence But Love Your Partner

Love is a beautiful thing (no doubt about it). A mystery we can't really explain. I mean how do you logically explain why your heart beats for A and why it  naturally shuts down to B ?

Wife Submit to Your Husband or Husband Love Your Wife. Which is Tougher ?

"Wife submit to your husband or "husband love your wife"...which really is tougher?? OK...I know deep down you must have responded with the "wives submit to your husband phrase". Fair enough, it is actually not easy to lay down your desires, wants and needs as the case may be as a woman. I mean we are all humans and we all enjoy doing what makes us happy (who doesn't). Infact, when I was younger, I used to always say that Male and female were formed the same way so there was no way I was going to accept one gender boss over the other....lol (Yes I was seriously angry with all the men in the world).

All About My Mission University And Ethan

I got admitted into the university way way before I was legal. I was not even up to 18 years old. I was in one of the best University in my country...It was a University on a mission to build morals and virtue amongst its students. We weren't even allowed to use mobile phones. We were also not allowed to wear "Jeans"...yea you had me right.

Moral Living was of uttermost importance...you had to be in every congregational meeting (literally every one of them or face the consequences). I mean you were allowed to miss lectures...who even cares but just don't miss university organized programs.

So was it a stressful experience and was it always fun? You bet...Yes it was stressful and no it wasn't always fun but then it is an experience that kept me on track which I don't regret in the long run.

Anyways...my first year in this mission university was well challenging...you know how we all get into university with a mindset that we would give our very best to our studies and come out top in our chosen field of study until the distractions of life and growing-up set in and messed up our plans. Well, my own distraction wasn't sports neither was it drinking or partying (I couldn't even try that in such an environment). So what exactly was my distraction?

Why Women Nag

Men keep wondering, why do women nag??? 

Why won't my lady just stop complaining about something I did wrong. 

Isn't she supposed to know I am not perfect.. but why don't I just pick on everything she does wrong and nag on and on the same way she does about me. I mean wouldn't life be so much easier this way?? And so says every man I have met on earth.

There is only but one reason actually....

What Has High School Got To Do With Love

Hi diary, I would be giving an update today on my love life at high school. High school was another amazing place to be for me. What I mean by this is that high school was the place I met "old soldier" the only guy that made me slap him and yes I literally cried all through my Junior Secondary School. But why did I cry?

The Place of Chemistry and Compatibility

I am just going to take a break on my past...let's do something different.

Chemistry or compatibility ? Which really matters most in any relationship?