19 Facts on Challenges Faced in Early Phases of Marriage (No.7 would shock you)

Why exactly do marriages fail most times usually in the first five years? Shouldn't this be the period when all is new and the dopamine and serotonin hormones that attracted you to your spouse is still active? I guess it should be...but then one can only be left to ask what usually goes wrong??

I believe the single phase is the period to prepare one's self for a successful home and a successful marriage. I mean you really need God at the center.

My First Love

Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol.

Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him. Well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol.