Hi everyone,
So today's post is going to be very interactive and would greatly involve you sharing your view point on the subject matter below.
So I got talking with a friend and we deliberated on this matter nonstop today.
"Which love and affection do you consider to be true...Love Type A or Love Type B? (I would give you the details of both love in a bit)". So here we go...
Is it love at first sight (let's call it Love type A). I mean the love, affection or attraction that naturally comes without you even really having known the person. You know, that type for example that can make a lady continue receiving slaps and beating from her man and yet she would say "but I still love him". This kind of love is actually not based on what a partner does or doesn't do...It is just there...it comes naturally for that significant other even if he or she is a moron...lol.
OR
The love that grows after having known a person (let's call this Love type B). I mean the type of love that comes after you have gotten to know a person. After you have gotten to know this person is nice, caring, loving, affectionate, considerate and all those things and then you now choose to fall in love with that person.....lol. So can we say love type B is truly genuine since it is a love that has grown after one has been receiving the right treatment from the other person? Or should we just term it as being a self centered kind of love?
Well...my friend stuck with love type A as the true and genuine love while I stuck love type B (don't judge me o...lol).
So please I really need to hear what you think about the trueness and genuineness of love type A OR love type B. Feel free to leave your response in the comment session.
Have a blessed day.
Cheers!!!
P.S. Love type B is more healthy than love type A. However, is it more true or less true?
A happens but very rare, B happens most times. But I'm neutral 😁
ReplyDeleteThanks Kim, but I think A happens much more often than B. Youths simply "just get attracted easily"
Deletei would comfortably settle with love at a later sight, though not to diminish the fact that sometimes love at first sight is not always blind as some assume.
ReplyDeleteThanks Zenda. Your comment is very much appreciated
DeleteLove love love....type A is definitely unhealthy but then there's the right kind of type A......I'll be neutral.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for sharing your preferred love type but at the same time remaining neutral. lol.
DeleteLove type B is not the best though but its safe and could guarantee a smooth relationship to a reasonable extent..
ReplyDeleteLove type B is not the best though but its safe and could guarantee a smooth relationship to a reasonable extent..
ReplyDeleteAgreed Love type B is healthy. but why do you think it is not the best?
DeleteI think both types of love can be healthy and the same unhealthy. Did you know that love type B can be based on deception. Nowadays people can fake being caring affectionate, loving etc just to achieve their lustful desires. Genuineness of love is what matter most.
ReplyDeleteExactly my point that B can be based on deception. Just to get what you want cos you've got to know the person
DeleteWell I feel love type A should be encouraged and then discernment on whether to grow that love or not should be made based on the analysis mechanism of love type B
DeleteI will forever be better off with love type A. It's natural and unforced. It is easier and strong and mostly overcomes multitude of evil. Just my pick. However there is nothing better than loving someone and the person loving you back. By the way, nice blog.
ReplyDeleteSo true. Nothing is sweeter than something that is natural and unforced.
DeleteLove type B mostly is always based on pretence. Where you've known the person well enough to know what he/she likes or doesn't like and you tend to act in a way that corresponds with the persons like/dislikes.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile with type A, you meet a person, fall for her and you're so determined to make it work, you most times do not care if the person feels the same way about you. You just let your self go.
Just my selfish opinion, doesn't work for everyone
You are right in a way. Thanks for looking at the issue from a different but very clear perspective.
DeleteI would love love type A because it is the one you need for for better for worse marriage.. The other one cannot work in for better for worse marriage.. It works for marriage that have release clause A. K. A divorce..
ReplyDeleteLol...you sound so sincere. Love type A has a greater chance of passing through thick or thin. but then there is also a love type B that can be sincere. What do you think?
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